There are close to 4 billion girls in the world and I can’t speak for each one of them. But I think it is safe to conclude that as a rule when a girl tells you she loves you there is  a lot more to it than what appears on the surface.
We have always been told that it is not easy for men to express how they feel, to communicate about their feelings openly . From  my personal experience I can say that it is true,  for most of them anyway.
While it may be difficult for boys to talk about how they feel , Today I wanna tell you about the storm that rages  inside a woman’s mind as she says those 3 magical words to you.
When a girl tells you she loves you it is not because it just popped into her head right at that moment. Even if some of us try to convince you that it did.
It is because for quite some time now she has been wrestling with a feeling similar to that  of a mild electric current running all through her body. For quite some time now she has been completely ignoring it and pretending that it doesn not exist.
There are moments when she feels a warm fire ignite within her and there are times when she finds herself smiling – for no reason.
But she doesn’t Acknowledge this strange feeling straight away.
Maybe It is because there is something about this new state of existence that naturally scares her to admit what almost always seems obvious in hindsight.

When a girl tells you how she really feels about you. It is despite her best friend warning her not to.

When a girl tells you she has fallen for you it is in spite of a voice in the back of her head screaming her to run away trying to convince her that it’s a bad idea.There is something inside her that knows that  she is bound to get hurt no matter how it turns out.

Only after asking herself a thousand questions will a girl tell you that she loves you.
Only after asking herself ‘what is wrong with me ?’ a million times and ‘what is wrong with him(Or her) ‘ a billion times is a girl really sure about it.
All of this of course is calculated in her head. Sometimes at lightening speed all while she is sipping her morning cup of  coffee.

It is tough for everyone to put themselves out there but when a girl does it, It is different because  She has already  done it a thousand times before, in her head whether she realises it or not.
She has imagined everything that can go wrong which includes everything from alien invasion to spontaneous breaking out of a zombie apocalypse
Okay , that might be  an exaggeration.
But the takeaway here is that when a  woman says ‘I love you’.  She already knows how much it is going to hurt if you don’t say it back. She has lived it in her a head a million times . But she is willing to risk it for she feels it is more important for you to know how she feels.That I believe requires a lot of courage! Courage that should be admired because not a lot of people have it.
A lot of people will prefer to stay in the dark rather than risking their heart to get broken.

When a girl tells you she loves you she has been in love with you for a long  time now . So yes she is sure.

You may not always feel the same way and that’s okay.
But I just feel that it is important for you to know that those three words took an insane amount of courage
There are close to 4 billion girls in the world and I can’t speak for each one of them. But I think that  it is safe to conclude that when a girl tells you she loves you there is a lightning  storm brewing  behind the  seemingly innocent spark in her eyes.

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